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Discrimination and clique culture why doelet and coquette should be separated

The nymphet community was put in a frenzy after nymphet tag’s getting band the search for new terms for the community was happening spooning coquette and doelet both meant to be rebranding of the nymphet aesthetic while both don’t capture the essence of the nymphet aesthetic one is much more problematic than the other


Purity culture in the doelet community



A lot of this drama takes place on animo a social media app made for social niches a community was created on there Doelets And Faunlets animo the term Doelet was used because they didn’t want to use the “sexual” term coquette while in French it is not sexual in nature it can be associated as such the doelet aesthetic focused on a lot of light weight and angelic fabrics with a focus on innocent the pure culture was so heavy any mention of a relationship that was platonic was criticized or deleted


Discrimination and clique culture


The Focus on innocent was very appearance anyone who did fit the innocent standard was judge pretty what harshly which puts into question what does innocent mean to the doelet community while it was based in European ideals of girlhood which is very lemeding for girls of color and survivors of sexual assault if you were both there was no place for you under that tag poc who experience sexual aesthetic are more likely to have not gotten professional help often acting out to “impure” ways Dolores wouldn’t even pass the purity standards in this community the community even when so far to say it’s minor girls faults that older men catcall them they should be dressed more appropriately


How purity cultures affect poc


Thought history poc women were put against women of no color as being dirty and sexual and wonc being pure and innocent when you have a clique mentality it’s use against the world based in European standards some discrimination happens when whiteness is the definition of innocent in a community that values innocent not surprising not a lot of poc were under the doelet tag


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There are only two types of doelets ones I like and ones I don’t like


Need I say more the us against the world mentality


Why the doelet and coquette community’s should be separated


It’s clearly that the two communities are very different in ideology’s and fashion, fashion was very Limited to fit the pure standards the doelet fashion was very minimalist while coquette fashion is not at the same level of nymphet aesthetic it is very diverse aesthetic more than doelet is many of the problems in the doelet community are not as severe in the coquette community


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